Soft limits mean the person is a bit worried but willing to explore. You can have soft, temporary, or hard limits. A limit is something that someone has a level of discomfort with. LIMITS – You’ll hear this word a lot in the BDSM scene. PRICK – “Personal Responsibility, Informed Consensual Kink” takes all the things mentioned above but emphasizes that people need to take responsibility for their play and that the participants understand everything that can or could happen so they can make an INFORMED decision. While SCC is a simple way to differentiate consensual play versus abuse, RACK is more about the idea that nothing is 100% safe and people need to be prepared.

RACK – Risk-Aware Consensual Kink emphasizes that all participants thoroughly understand any risks involved with BDSM activities. However, many people lump this idea in with safety and or sanity. Sometimes people add an extra “S” for “sober” to emphasize a point. SCC– This abbreviation stands for Safe, Sane, Consensual. They spend the entire allotted time on the list, rather than having a pleasant experience with their Mistress/Master. Instead, make them sit and write 50 reasons why being late is a bad thing and then read it out loud.There’s a new word floating around called “ funishment“. If they love corporal punishment, spanking will only reward them.For example, a submissive regularly shows up late to sessions, dates, meetups, and whatnot. Then there’s the issue of finding one that works specifically for them and their infraction. New kinkers should also note that punishments should ALWAYS be consensual and communicated ahead of time.Ī BDSM punishment should not only correct the submissive’s behavior but also result in something more positive. But these activities can also be part of something erotic (like roleplaying). It’s no different than other sorts of social conditioning we experience throughout our lives … just probably with more leather and metal.

The idea is for the Dom/me to reshape unwanted behavior. Boring or Mental Things to Make Them Crumble.BDSM Punishment Ideas – Restrictive or Denial-Based.

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